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Jessica at home

Hey, I'm Jessica!

For almost six years, the same thing happened every night.

My eyes would snap open somewhere around 3 a.m.

And before I was even fully awake, my mind was already racing. Did I respond to that email? What if Mom's test results are bad? Did I lock the front door?

My body felt exhausted. My eyes burned. My limbs felt heavy. Every part of me was begging for rest.

But the moment I closed my eyes, my brain started running a marathon.

And right beside me, my husband slept like a stone. Head on the pillow, gone till morning. Meanwhile, I was staring at the ceiling wondering: “What is wrong with me?”

America's 3 A.M. wake-up crisis

So I tried melatonin. First 3 mg. Then 5 mg. Eventually 10 mg. Instead of fixing my sleep, it left me groggy in the morning — and the more melatonin I took, the less it worked.

Then I also tried magnesium, blackout curtains, a white-noise machine, a new mattress…

I built the “perfect” nighttime routine…

But even when I did everything right, the racing thoughts crept in. That constant loop the second my head hit the pillow — tomorrow, the deadline, the thing I forgot.

  • 3:14 AM. Every night.
  • Lying there doing the math on how little sleep was left.
  • Coffee just to feel human by 10 AM.
Wide awake at 3 a.m.

So I dug into the research to understand what was actually happening inside my body. Why sleep felt impossible — even when I was exhausted.

And what I found changed everything:

I didn't need more melatonin. I needed my brain's “Sleep Battery” back.

Solve your brain's sleep battery

Here's what almost no one tells you.

Your brain has a natural system that's supposed to make sleep feel automatic. Think of it like a battery.

Every minute you're awake, your brain builds up a molecule called adenosine — your natural sleep fuel. When the battery charges all day, sleep at night feels effortless. Automatic.

The brain's hidden sleep pressure molecule

But for millions of people, three forces drain that battery at the same time:

Chronic stress — keeps your nervous system in alert mode, blocking the calm signals your brain needs at night.
Modern overstimulation — caffeine, blue light, notifications, late scrolling. Your brain acts like the day never ended.
Drained sleep battery

When the battery never fully charges, something maddening happens: you feel physically exhausted… yet stay mentally wide awake.

And here's the trap most people fall into — they reach for more melatonin.

But melatonin is just a timing signal. It tells your brain “it's dark.” That's it.

Imagine turning off every light in your house — while every TV, appliance, and alarm is still running. The room is dark. But the system is not quiet.

That's why more melatonin might make you drowsy at first… then do nothing when you snap awake three hours later. The lights went off. But the battery was still empty.

And it doesn't end when morning comes. Deep sleep is when your body does its most important repair — your nervous system resets, memories lock in, tissues recover, and the brain runs its overnight cleanup.

So broken sleep doesn't just make you tired. It makes everything harder:

So the answer was never to sedate myself harder.

It was to reset the whole sleep system.

So I Went Looking For a Way to Rebuild Sleep Pressure

Not another knockout pill. Not a higher dose. I wanted to know — could I give my brain the raw materials to sleep naturally again?

And the research kept circling back to one overlooked mineral:

Magnesium Bisglycinate®.

Magnesium bisglycinate How magnesium bisglycinate supports sleep pathways

Magnesium Bisglycinate supports the natural pathways tied to healthy sleep — including tryptophan support. Tryptophan helps your body make serotonin. And serotonin converts to melatonin at night.

In other words: it doesn't dump another oversized dose of a hormone on you. It hands your body the raw materials to run its own nighttime process.

But Magnesium alone couldn't fix everything keeping people awake. It didn't quiet racing thoughts. It didn't supply the brain's natural “brake pedal.” It didn't calm 3 a.m. stress. And it didn't provide the cofactors your body needs to actually use it.

The real fix had to work across the whole sleep cycle:

The whole sleep cycle

That became the blueprint.

And That's How Sonnus® Was Born.

A delicious nightly gummy designed to help your brain and body remember how to sleep — through a ten-ingredient system, not brute-force sedation. Just chew 2 gummies about 30 minutes before bed, and let the ritual begin.

How Sonnus® was born
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The Science

The Science Behind Sonnus®

10 clinically-backed sleep ingredients working as one complete system.

Magnesium Bisglycinate®The Sleep-Pressure PrimerSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Provides compounds involved in serotonin and melatonin production — the foundation of the system.

  • Supports your brain's natural “sleep fuel”
  • Tryptophan → serotonin → melatonin, on your body's schedule
  • The foundation of the entire reset
The Sleep-Pressure PrimerYour Natural Drowsiness — Back Online
L-TheanineThe Racing-Mind QuietenerSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Calm alpha brain-wave support, without feeling switched off.

  • Promotes calm alpha brain-wave activity
  • A quieter mind without the heavy feeling
  • Ease into sleep instead of fighting for it
The Racing-Mind QuietenerA Quiet Mind at Lights-Out
Magnesium GlycinateThe Body-Release MineralSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

The premium form for nervous-system and muscle relaxation.

  • Highly absorbable glycinate form
  • Supports muscle and nervous-system relaxation
  • From tense-and-wired to relaxed-and-ready
The Body-Release MineralTension Released, Body Ready
5-HTPThe Serotonin BridgeSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Building blocks used in nighttime melatonin production.

  • Supports your body's serotonin production
  • Feeds the pathway melatonin comes from
  • From daytime calm to nighttime rest
The Serotonin BridgeFrom Calm Days to Restful Nights
Vitamin B6The Nighttime ConverterSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Bioactive cofactor for serotonin and melatonin metabolism.

  • Helps convert 5-HTP into serotonin
  • Supports nighttime melatonin metabolism
  • Helping your body use what you give it
The Nighttime ConverterRaw Materials, Actually Used
Precision Melatonin® 0.9 mgThe Night SignalSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Not the common 5–12 mg megadose — a whisper, not a sledgehammer.

  • Precisely dosed at 0.9 mg
  • Signals bedtime without the morning fog
  • A gentle signal — not the whole solution
The Night SignalLights Out — Without the Hangover
GABAThe Natural Brake PedalSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Alertness is the accelerator; GABA is the brake.

  • Your brain's main calming neurotransmitter
  • Helps your brain ease off the gas
  • Supports the shift out of alert mode
The Natural Brake PedalYour Brain Finally Eases Off the Gas
ApigeninThe Calm SignalSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

A chamomile compound supporting GABA-related calm.

  • Naturally found in chamomile
  • Supports GABA-related calm pathways
  • A traditional bedtime botanical, modernized
The Calm SignalBedtime Calm, Modernized
Vitamin B2The Circadian CofactorSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

Supports cellular energy and healthy rhythms.

  • Supports cellular energy production
  • Helps maintain a healthy circadian rhythm
  • Support for a more consistent rhythm
The Circadian CofactorA Rhythm Your Body Can Keep

The Sonnus® 4-Step Reset

Miss one stage, and sleep may still feel incomplete.

1. Recharge

Magnesium Bisglycinate + 5-HTP + B-Vitamins → the raw materials behind natural nighttime signaling.

2. Quiet

L-Theanine + GABA + Apigenin → calms the mental noise, eases the brain out of alert mode.

3. Release

Magnesium Glycinate + Lemon Balm → lets the body release tension and 3 a.m. stress.

4. Restore

Precision Melatonin + full-system support → signals bedtime and supports deep, continuous rest.

Do all four together — and sleep stops being something you chase. Drift Off. Stay Asleep. Wake Restored.

What a Night Looks Like With Sonnus®

A full night with Sonnus
9:30 PM

You chew two wild-berry gummies about 30 minutes before bed. The ritual begins — magnesium bisglycinate and 5-HTP start feeding your natural sleep signals. No pills, no powders, no bitter tea.

10:00 PM

L-Theanine and GABA ease your brain off the gas — the mental to-do list goes quiet, and your body sinks heavy into the mattress. Drifting off stops feeling like a fight.

3:00 AM

The hour that used to own you… passes in silence. If you stir, you roll over — and you're gone again. No clock-watching, no ceiling-staring, no math on the hours left.

6:30 AM

You wake before the alarm, clear-headed instead of foggy. No melatonin hangover, no fog to claw out of — just steady energy that lasts the whole day.

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And when nights like this start stacking… something powerful happens.
Your body remembers how to sleep on its own. The dread of bedtime disappears. Your days change — because your nights did.

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Who Sonnus® Is For

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3 a.m. Wakers

— fall asleep fine, then jolt awake hours later, mind fully on.

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Racing-Mind Sleepers

— body exhausted, thoughts still sprinting.

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Stress-Loaded Professionals & Parents

— carrying work, family and money into bed every night.

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Natural-First Sleepers

— who want real support without starting on a prescription sedative.

Who Sonnus® Is NOT For

People Wanting a Harsh KnockoutSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

— this supports natural sleep; it's not built to sedate you.

“Take It Once & Forget It” UsersSonnus sleep gummies 3am waking insomnia — imagem ilustrativa

— the results come from a consistent nightly ritual. Not for anyone under 18, or pregnant/nursing without medical approval.

Sonnus® Vs The Alternatives

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Melatonin Pills
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Quiets a racing mind before bed
Helps you stay asleep all night long
No groggy hangovers
Third-party lab tested
All-natural, premium ingredients
Full support Partial / indirect Not designed for this
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What to Expect

Your Nights' Sleep, Week by Week

Here's what most people feel — so you know it's working.

First Few Nights

  • The mental marathon slows — your body feels heavy in the good way
  • You stop rehearsing tomorrow the second your head hits the pillow
  • Drifting off stops feeling like a fight
  • You fall asleep calmer than you have in months

Week 1

  • The 3 a.m. wake-up loses its grip — you stir, roll over, and you're gone again
  • You wake up and realize you never checked the clock once
  • That first morning you don't reach for coffee just to function
  • Racing thoughts start losing their power over your night

Weeks 2–4

  • Full nights, back to back — it's a pattern now, not a fluke
  • You wake before the alarm, clear-headed instead of foggy
  • Actually rested for the first time in longer than you can remember
  • People start saying you seem lighter — more patient, more present

Months 2–3

  • The ritual runs on autopilot and the deep sleep goes deep
  • Steady, all-day energy you'd forgotten was possible
  • The afternoon crash disappears
  • You stop bracing for a bad night — because they stopped happening

Month 4+

  • This is just how you sleep now — not chased, not dreaded
  • Your body does it on its own, night after night
  • The exhausting nights feel like a chapter you closed
  • And you never want to go back
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Questions? Answered.

The Product
How is this different from regular melatonin or sleeping pills?
They don't rebuild your sleep — they override it. A sleeping pill knocks you out. High-dose melatonin just flips a light switch and tells your brain “it's dark.” Neither one charges the battery that's supposed to keep you asleep — so the moment you stop, the 3 a.m. wake-ups come right back. Sonnus® does the opposite: it supports the natural sleep pressure your brain builds on its own, so you make your own drowsiness again. No prescription, non-habit-forming, and nothing to rebound from.
What's in it — and is it safe?
Ten sleep-support ingredients and nothing else: magnesium bisglycinate to feed your natural sleep signal, L-theanine and GABA to quiet the racing mind, magnesium glycinate and lemon balm to release the tension that keeps you wired at night, and a precise 0.9 mg of melatonin to signal bedtime — not sledgehammer you. No stimulants, no caffeine, no gluten, no sugar, no artificial fillers or dyes. Made in the USA in an FDA-registered facility, and every batch is third-party tested for purity before it ships.
When will I see results?
Most people notice the racing mind going quiet in the first few nights — you fall asleep calmer instead of fighting your own head. Around week two the 3 a.m. wake-ups start fading and you stay asleep longer. By month one the deep sleep gets more consistent and the mornings stop feeling like a fog you have to claw out of. This is a biological reset, not a knockout pill, so consistency is what makes it stick.
What's the 90-day guarantee?
Take Sonnus® for a full 2 months. If your mind doesn't quiet down, if you're still snapping awake at 3 a.m., if you don't wake up clearer — if you're not happy for any reason at all — email us and we'll refund every penny. Even if the bottles are empty. You get 90 days to decide, which means the only way to find out is to try it.
Daily Use
How do I take it?
Chew two gummies about 30 minutes before bed. That's it. No pills to swallow, no powders, no bitter tea, nothing to add to your routine. The wild berry flavor makes it the easiest part of your night — which is exactly the point, because the reset only works if you actually stick with it.
Can I take it with my other supplements or medications?
Sonnus® is made from natural compounds and works alongside most daily supplements without any issue. If you're currently on prescription medication — especially a sleep aid, sedative, antidepressant, or extra melatonin — check with your doctor first, the same as you would with any new supplement.
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Silencing the 3AM Mind: Why Your Brain "Turns On" in the Middle of the Night

This section offers general educational information about sleep-maintenance insomnia and nighttime rumination. It is not medical or mental health advice — persistent or distressing symptoms are worth discussing with a healthcare provider or mental health professional.

For a specific and very common group of people, the problem is not falling asleep — it's a mind that switches on like a light around 2AM or 3AM, replaying conversations, surfacing tomorrow's to-do list, or spiraling into worry, right at the moment the body should be in its deepest, most restorative sleep. This pattern has a name in sleep science — sleep-maintenance insomnia with cognitive arousal — and understanding why it happens is the first step to actually addressing it, rather than just white-knuckling through another sleepless stretch.

Why the Brain Chooses 3AM, of All Times

  • Lighter sleep stages dominate the second half of the night. Sleep cycles roughly every 90 minutes, shifting between light sleep, deep sleep, and REM. Deep sleep is concentrated earlier in the night; by 2–4AM, cycles are shorter and lighter, which makes it far easier for a small nudge — a noise, a passing thought, a temperature shift — to tip you into full wakefulness.
  • Cortisol is already beginning its ascent. The body's cortisol rhythm starts rising several hours before your natural wake time to prepare you for the day. If your baseline stress load is high, that rise can start earlier and sharper than it should, arriving with a jolt of "wired" alertness instead of a gentle nudge toward morning.
  • There is no external distraction to compete with rumination. During the day, rumination has to compete with conversations, tasks, and sensory input. At 3AM, in a dark, silent room, an anxious or overactive thought pattern has the mental stage entirely to itself, which is part of why the exact same worry that felt manageable at 3PM can feel enormous at 3AM.
  • The "checking the clock" loop reinforces itself. Once you've woken at 3AM a few nights in a row, some people's brains begin to anticipate it — a learned, conditioned wakefulness that can persist even after the original trigger (a stressful project, a life event) has resolved.
  • Nervous system tone matters. A nervous system that runs "activated" (sympathetic-dominant) rather than "settled" (parasympathetic-dominant) throughout the day is more likely to carry that activation into the lighter sleep stages of early morning, where it is more easily able to surface as full wakefulness.

Key Terms Defined

Cognitive arousal
A state of mental alertness and active thinking that is incompatible with falling or staying asleep, distinct from physical restlessness.
Rumination
Repetitive, often negative or worry-focused thinking that circles the same topic without resolution — a well-documented driver of both sleep-onset and sleep-maintenance insomnia.
Sympathetic vs. parasympathetic nervous system
The two branches of the autonomic nervous system; sympathetic tone is associated with alertness and stress response ("fight or flight"), while parasympathetic tone supports rest, digestion, and sleep ("rest and digest").
Conditioned wakefulness
A learned association between a specific time, place, or situation (such as 3AM, or the bed itself) and wakefulness, which can persist independently of the original cause.

Approaches Compared

ApproachWhat it targetsWhere it falls short for the 3AM pattern
Sleep-onset aids (melatonin)Falling asleep at bedtimeLargely metabolized by the time middle-of-the-night waking occurs
Sedatives (prescription or antihistamine-based)General central nervous system suppressionDoes not address rumination or nervous system tone; tolerance and next-day grogginess are common concerns
"Just stop thinking about it"Conscious effort to suppress the thoughtThought suppression reliably backfires in sleep research — trying not to think about something tends to increase its salience
Cognitive behavioral strategies (e.g., scheduled worry time, cognitive defusion)The rumination pattern itselfEffective but requires practice and consistency; often most powerful combined with physiological support
Supporting nervous system calming physiologically (magnesium, consistent wind-down)The underlying nervous system tone that makes rumination easier to fall into at 3AMWorks best as part of a broader routine, not an isolated fix

The Physiology Behind a "Racing Mind"

A racing mind at 3AM is not purely psychological — it has a measurable physiological component. Magnesium is a required cofactor for GABA receptor function, and GABA is the brain's primary inhibitory neurotransmitter, responsible for reducing the runaway neural activity that rumination represents. When magnesium status is suboptimal — which, per National Institutes of Health data, is common among American adults — this calming pathway has less support, potentially making it easier for a stray thought to escalate into a full spiral of alertness rather than settling back into sleep. This is why purely psychological strategies (like thought-stopping techniques) sometimes feel like they're fighting an uphill battle: the nervous system's baseline capacity to downshift is itself part of the equation, alongside the content of the thoughts themselves.

A Practical Framework for Quieter Nights

  1. Externalize the thought. Keeping a notepad by the bed to jot down a worry or to-do item removes the pressure of "holding onto it," which research on pre-sleep rumination consistently shows reduces its intensity.
  2. Build a genuine wind-down window. Twenty to thirty minutes of low-stimulation activity before bed helps shift nervous system tone toward "rest and digest" before you're relying on it to hold through the night.
  3. Avoid checking the clock. Clock-checking activates the same alert, evaluative part of the brain involved in problem-solving — exactly what you don't want active at 3AM.
  4. Support your nervous system nutritionally. Adequate magnesium intake supports the GABA pathway central to calming an overactive mind.
  5. If you're awake more than 20 minutes, get up briefly. Sleep clinicians often recommend leaving the bed for a quiet, dim activity rather than lying there escalating frustration, which itself becomes a new source of arousal.
  6. Address daytime stress load, not just nighttime symptoms. A nervous system that never gets a true "off" period during the day has less capacity to settle at night — daytime stress management is part of the sleep equation, not separate from it.

Why Willpower Alone Rarely Solves This

One of the most frustrating aspects of 3AM rumination is that it responds poorly to willpower. Telling yourself "just relax" or "just go back to sleep" tends to add a layer of performance pressure on top of the original worry, which itself becomes a new source of frustration and arousal. This is consistent with broader research on thought suppression: actively trying not to think about something reliably increases how often that thought resurfaces, a phenomenon sometimes called the "ironic process" in cognitive psychology. Effective approaches tend to work indirectly — externalizing the thought rather than suppressing it, and supporting the physiological capacity to downshift rather than relying purely on conscious effort — because they work with the nervous system's actual mechanics rather than against them.

When a Racing Mind at Night Signals Something Beyond Sleep Hygiene

While occasional 3AM rumination is extremely common and often responds well to the strategies above, persistent nightly racing thoughts, especially when paired with significant daytime anxiety, physical symptoms like a racing heart, or a sense of dread, can be a sign of an underlying anxiety disorder that benefits from direct evaluation by a healthcare provider or mental health professional. Sleep hygiene and nervous-system support are genuinely useful tools, but they are not a substitute for professional evaluation when anxiety is a primary, ongoing driver of the pattern rather than an occasional stress response.

How This Pattern Differs From Ordinary Trouble Falling Asleep

It is worth clearly separating the 3AM racing-mind pattern from classic sleep-onset insomnia, because the two are driven by different mechanisms and respond to somewhat different strategies. Sleep-onset insomnia happens at bedtime, when the nervous system has not yet downshifted from the day's activity — the fix generally centers on a longer, more deliberate wind-down period. The 3AM pattern happens after sleep has already been achieved once, in the lighter, more easily disrupted sleep stages of the second half of the night, and is more closely tied to cortisol timing and how well the nervous system can re-settle after a brief, normal awakening. Someone can be excellent at falling asleep quickly and still experience significant 3AM waking, which is why a strategy built entirely around bedtime routines sometimes leaves the middle-of-the-night problem untouched.

The Role of Daytime Habits in Nighttime Rumination

What happens during the day has more influence on 3AM wakefulness than most people assume. A nervous system that operates in a chronically activated state — frequent low-grade stress, constant notifications and context-switching, minimal genuine downtime — tends to carry that activation into sleep, even when a person feels consciously "fine" by bedtime. Several small, unglamorous daytime habits are consistently associated with calmer nights in sleep research: brief periods of genuinely undistracted time (even ten minutes), regular movement or exercise (though not too close to bedtime), and consistent exposure to natural light, which helps anchor the circadian rhythm that governs when cortisol should and shouldn't be active. None of these single-handedly solves 3AM rumination, but together they lower the baseline nervous-system activation that makes a stray 3AM thought more likely to spiral rather than settle.

A Word on Sleep Trackers and the "Trying Too Hard" Trap

Sleep tracking devices have become popular tools for understanding sleep patterns, and they can be genuinely useful for spotting trends over time. However, some people develop a counterproductive relationship with their sleep data — checking a tracker's score first thing in the morning, or even during a 3AM waking, can itself become a source of the same evaluative, alert mental state that keeps rumination going. If a sleep tracker is adding anxiety rather than useful insight, it is entirely reasonable to check it less frequently, or only during the day, rather than in the middle of a waking episode.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do my thoughts feel so much worse at 3AM than during the day?

At night there is no external distraction competing for attention, sleep stages are lighter and easier to wake from, and cortisol is already beginning its natural rise — together these make the same worry that felt manageable during the day feel disproportionately large in the middle of the night.

Does writing down worries before bed actually help?

Yes — research on pre-sleep rumination has found that externalizing a worry, such as writing it down, reduces its intensity by removing the mental burden of trying to hold onto or remember it, which is why many sleep clinicians recommend a bedside notepad.

Should I get out of bed if I can't fall back asleep?

Many sleep clinicians recommend getting up for a brief, quiet, dim-light activity if you've been awake more than roughly 20 minutes, since lying in bed growing frustrated can itself become a new source of arousal that makes falling back asleep harder.

Can magnesium really help with racing thoughts at night?

Magnesium supports GABA receptor function, the brain's primary calming neurotransmitter pathway, so adequate magnesium status is one of several factors that can influence how easily an overactive mind settles, though it works best alongside behavioral strategies rather than as a stand-alone fix.

Is it normal to wake up at the same time every night?

A consistent wake time often points to a physiological trigger — most commonly an early cortisol rise — repeating on the same internal schedule night after night, rather than a coincidence, and it typically responds to strategies that address that underlying rhythm.

When should nighttime anxiety be evaluated by a professional?

If racing thoughts at night are frequent, distressing, accompanied by physical symptoms like a racing heart, or paired with significant daytime anxiety, it is worth discussing with a healthcare provider or mental health professional rather than managing it solely through sleep hygiene.

Can a warm bath or shower before bed help with this pattern?

Some people find a warm bath an hour or two before bed helpful because the subsequent drop in body temperature as you cool down afterward mimics part of the natural thermoregulatory signal for sleep, though its effect on middle-of-the-night waking specifically is more modest than its effect on falling asleep initially.

Does exercise help reduce 3AM waking?

Regular moderate exercise is generally associated with calmer nervous system tone and better sleep quality overall, though timing matters — vigorous exercise too close to bedtime can be stimulating for some people, so earlier in the day is typically the better window for supporting this specific overnight benefit.